My GF is confused, playing games but acts as though we're still together..need your...

[pingpong95]

...opinions? My girlfriend of almost three years is confusing me. We broke up about a week and a half ago.We got into a fight and both said things we didn't mean to say. We apologized to each other and everything was fine.Now she's saying she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. She has said this in the past when we had previous fights but it was usually just fluff talk, we always got back together.But she always try to punish me by saying this but yet still she asks if i'm seeing other girls.

Now why is she saying this but when I start to ignore her she comes over, we still have sex and she texts me every night and we talk for hours at night. She says she misses me etc but doesn't want a relationship right now.
We are both not seeing other people during our break..two nights ago we met up and she said these past couple days made her realize how much she loved me etc.And if it was meant to be it I should let it happen, she said there's no rush.
But this is just confusing..what do you think I should do?Wait for her?We both love each other and all of our friends say we are bound to get married.She and I do want to marry each other
She said she wants time apart to make sure that I am the one.She cant even sleep at night now because she usually sleeps at my house with me.She is 22 I'm 23.

I'm a good guy I pay a lot of the bills etc, we go out, travel a lot and have fun...but she doesn't feel like she contributes to the relationship.

she says seeing her mother makes her second guess things, her mother is a single mother with three kids, divorced twice.
She came over again last nite and told me her mother was leaving the state and was going up north, and that she is not going with her mom. She also said again that she has recently been thinking about marriage and having kids ..and she looks at me when she says this..she is also entertaining the though of coming back to my home country with me..As she was leaving, we started kissing and I hinted that she could come live with me(as was our original plan) and she smiled and said "oh I'm not sure, what would we be?" jokingly and i told her anything but friends, I was not gonna be her friend but us living together would be something else...

Now is this girl playing with me or what?
And no she isn't F**King anyone else...

 

[brittany]

That girl is playing mind games with you, tell her honestly stick up for yourself, tell her "look, I love you, but Im not playing games with you, you know how I feel about you, you know I dont want anyone else, but Im not gonna talk to you for hours a day, be all affectionate and sexual with you, and then you tell me you just want to be Friends, I cant be just your friend, Im in love with you, so until you figure out what you really want, then take the break you need, but let me bc your just playing games and confusing me, you cant have your cake and eat it too." Good luck with that, but make her either go or be with you bc she has your attention and company and sex but doesn't want to be with you, if she doesn't change, I would look for a new partner, but for now, put your foot down, and see what happens with her