Me and my girlfriend has been going out for 8 months and i'm falling in love with her. However, she is a virgin and she wants to save Sex for the marriage. She told me that she won't change her mind on that. I've tried every possible way to turn her on and ya she did turn on. I try to give her oral sex, and lick her down there, but at some point she always tries to stop me. She said she liked it a lot but it would make her to want sex so she always stop me. Now she even refuses me to lick down on her. I can only do kissing on top and finger her from now on. If you ask me if i ever get Blow job from her? The answer is No, but i get handjobs sometimes. As a boyfriend, it's very hard and frustrating for me that i can't have sex with my gf. Every time i turned on, she stopped me and turned me down. It's really hard for me. I know that sex is not the priority in the relationship but it's one of the important factors.
So i have left with 2 options that i can think of. First, i have to keep trying until she would want to have sex with me. I need help on this. How do i try it effectively? Second, maybe we are not meant to be together and it's time to stop the relationship.
I seriously don't know what to do. This is a big decision that i need to make. Any help or suggestion would be appreciated. Thanks.
So i have left with 2 options that i can think of. First, i have to keep trying until she would want to have sex with me. I need help on this. How do i try it effectively? Second, maybe we are not meant to be together and it's time to stop the relationship.
I seriously don't know what to do. This is a big decision that i need to make. Any help or suggestion would be appreciated. Thanks.