Sally Yourface
New member
So I have this best friend, whom I will call Z. Z and I met each other around Nov. 08, but we really got close over the summer. At first she was sweet, very very nice. Well recently we kind of had a fight, but it was her fault and I'm a forgiving person (I always give people second chances, for some reason). Sometimes she likes to joke a lot with her friends saying that she doesn't want to talk to me or whatever, and once she really got to me and started saying these really horrible stuff about me that resulted in me crying because of her, and plus I was already in a crappy mood. When she found out that I had cried, she immediately began to apologize and said that the whole thing was just a joke. I took some time trying to figure out if I should forgive her or not, and I did. After all, I am one of her best friends...but recently she's been having these major mood swings. Sometimes she can be the sweetest/nicest/laid-back & calm person ever, but sometimes she'll just start yelling at me randomly on the phone and it can really hurt my feelings but I always try to fake a smile or laugh it off which sucks. When she's not in a grumpy mood she is awesome, the most amazing person ever, but how can I be friends with someone who goes on and off with their good and bad moods? Like seriously, when she is in a bad mood she is so rude, in so many ways that it drives me crazy and mad but of course I don't say anything, I never ever defend myself. And today she's mad at me over a very small misunderstanding, and I've apologized to her on Myspace and she hasn't answered because she must still be sleeping. If she doesn't forgive me, I'm so going to dump her as a friend because that's not fair and totally bitchy, I forgived her after she made me CRY and she won't forgive me over something retarded. Anyways, what should I do? She is a horrible bitch when she is in a bad mood, yet she can be awesome when she's in a good mood. I'm tired of her mood swings, I hate her when she's in a bad mood.