My friend will be going to court for child support and the baby's daddy mother wants...

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Mimi

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..."grandparents rights"? Does the father of this child have any chance of winning the battle? Background of the father: Did not graduate from high school. Does not have a stable job, currently unemployed. Hasn't paid child support. Haven;t seen the baby in a month and in the past he only visited the baby like once a week for like an hour. He's a total idiot.
Background for mother: Full time college student. Has a part time job at the same place since she was 16. She is almost 21. enough said.... LOL the baby is 6 months.

The thing that annoy me is that the "sperm donor" is married to an 18 year old while his son was only 2-3 months old. My best friend was never with the idiot through out her pregnancy. His excuse for not giving her money to help with raising the baby is because he will not have any money for food. LMAO!!!

So while she is taking to court. Will the judge have give my friend full custody?
sorry for the grammar lol~
ohh YES The grandmother is VERY TRASHY ALSO. i told my friend not to date this idiot. She is 45-55 and last halloween her costume was a sexy police officer. But she wasn't sexy. she dresses like shes 18, but shes WAY older. And trashy
AND. When i said the father is an idiot...he is an idiot. He tried to join the army, but he couldnt pass the test. He does do drugs. He admit to my friend he didnt visit the son because he was doing drugs. He told my friend to drop out of college because he thinks that will rid the stress. He came to her house 3 weeks ago and got in her face. My friend and I will be very happy if the father was not in the baby's life. All he is..is trouble
I would also like to add that the father got married to an 18 year old when the baby was 2 months old. And she graduated from my school a year before me. Her mother kicked her out of the house bc she wanted to marry that idiot.
 
Yeah, he isn't real likely to get much in the way of custody.

You don't describe grandma - is she in the same caliber as daddy?

ps I really hope your girlfriend has gotten past her bad taste in men. This one is a doozy.
 
The grandparents have right but that loser has no chance he will be getting child support bill and if he doesn't pay it he is in jail til he does pay it!
 
First of all, there is no such thing as grandparent's rights under the law. The judge will ONLY give custody to a grandparent or other family member if a) the parents agree to it; or b) the parents are not there, ae in jail, or are so incompetent as to effectively render the kid an orphan.

Second, while we all hate deadbeat dads, the fact that the guy is a loser and is considerably stupid does not negate his parental rights or his parental responsibility. If he wants visitation or custody, he'll have to show how he intends to take care of a baby. The judge will demand to see proof of income from him and then will tell him what he will pay for child support. The judge will make sure he can live, but that's about it.

It seems to me that the mother has a very good chance at getting full custody of the child, or at least partial custody and child support -- but no one can tell you that for sure one way or the other because it's all up to the judge. Your friend should bring her boss and other character witnesses, as well as be prepared to show proof of income, responsibility, etc.
 
since the father of the baby is married your friend has a low chance and the grandfather can help pay for a better lawyer. Sorry :(
 
First off Grandparents rights have NOTHING to do with their son and what a pos he is.....And yes the mother will most likely get custody but unless the dad is a drug user and it can be proved, a sex offender or in prison he will get visitation, even if it's supervised...And the grandparents rights are just saying that the grandparents can see the child as well, like the mom and grandparents will pick times and days for the grandparents to spend time with their grandchild...

Your friend needs to relax, she'll regret keeping the child from the father and grandparents when the child is older....
 
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