alright, i know its pretty long, but please answer. but the way, im 15 and so is she. and angie and marina are 16.
ok, so i have this best friend. lets call her Cooper. and i have 2 other friends. lets call them marina and angie. ok. the 4 of us are like best friends and i think of them as my sisters. but here's the deal:
today i got a phone call from Cooper. and marina was over at coopers house. and i was like why wasn't i invited?
Cooper was like, "because i had to talk to marina."
i said,"why can't i be involved?".
shes like," well you don't know part of the story."
i said, "that's not fair , why can't i know?"
she goes,"ok. about 3 weeks ago, i had sex with my boyfriend. and i told angie and marina. and now angie had gone and told lots of people at my school. and im upset."
and now at this point i am like shaking and shocked because it wasn't just sex, she lost her virginity. and she is always even the one saying that she is going to wait. so ya. but i was just pretty upset. so i just said," i have to go." we were supposed to see each other later anyway. but i was just in shock. so anyway. we met up later for a class and marina and angie were there too along with like 30 other people. but we can't really talk during this class. so ya. but anyway. when we got there, Cooper asked me what i thought about everything and i didn't really know what to say, because i was still just in shock.
and i think that most of the reason i am so mad is because it has now been three weeks and all three of them have had SOOO many opportunities to tell me this story. and none of them said 1 thing. NOTHING<
so now i don't know how to feel. i kind of feel like disconnected. and weird. idk, i still have to hear the full story but ya, im just so mad.
and on one had i am sort of mad at myself that i pursued this conversation with her over the phone. but at the same time, i am really glad i did because i feel like i would have just exploded and lost it on her. like really if i had done it in person.
but why wouldn't she have said anything? please just give me your opinions. what should i do or say.