my fiance is in the army reserves and he has high blood presure and high blood sugar. We are getting married soon and i dont know if i should set a date for the wedding. can anyone tell me there opinion i am concered that he is going to get deployed there is no talk of deployment but out posible wedding date is 10/22/2011 do you think it is safe to plan or put it off he gets out of the army reserves in three years or should we wait for that.