My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago, tells me to ignore her, we hang out tonight,...

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Randall

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...have sex, now she ignores me!? we broke up less than 2 weeks ago and we were cool, then i found out she was talking to all these guys and lied about going over to another guys house even, so i got pissed off, started calling her and texting her non stop, she ignored all those, then she said "you need to leave me alone, im trying to forget about you, dont talk to me ever, i dont wanna kiss you hold your hand or have sex ever again"

i actually ignore her for one full day. then the next day i texted her asking nicely if she wanted to see a movie. she said yes and i gave her a great time, then we ended up having sex afterwords, but during the movie she was crying (sad movie) and i said i love you, then during making love, i said i love you, but she never said it back. she refused to say it, i was really hurt and confused.

she finally said it, by going "okay i love you! i love you i love you i love you i love you! i just dont wanna say it and then you bug me again, okay?" after i get home i texted her, and she never replied back... ugh.

im so confused. she breaks up with me, we do that, i tell her i love her, she doesnt say it back until the last second, and when she does say it, she says 'i dont want you buggin me though', girls... whats going on? do you think me and her will end up dating again? or am i being lead on?
i honestly love this girl and she loved me, we dated for 10 months and went through a lot. she did say "i loved how you ignored me that one day, i felt like i had my own space and time and everything"..... i just want her to date me again :( i miss her
 
it sounds like you guys were never broken up. if i were you, i'd feel used. because it sounds like she's just using you for when she wants. she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. she doesn't sound worth your time.
 
i think she is kind of using you,, that sounds mean but she doesnt seem interested in who you are. she isnt worth the time if she treats you like that. and you seem to have completely fallen for her and she knows it and is playing you to her advantage. sorry x
 
you're definitely being led on.
shes using you because she knows you'll b there

however lets be fair she may be battling with her own emotions for you, never really knowing how she feels about you or knowing what she wants to happen with you two.

for you're own good you need to step back and move on. shes clearly not the right person for you, i think deep down you know this but just dnt want to admit it, no one ever does want to admit, because you're hoping she'll realise she wants you and change.

for your best interest break up - properlyyyyyy!!!!
 
Bro, I hate to say this but welcome to the " comfort blanket " thats what you are right now. Your best bet is to ignore her for at least a month I know easier said then done but if you want her back and under the right circumstances you have to do that. It gives her time to miss you and figure out what she wants. Also for some unknown reason women always fall for the jerks. It sux but what can you do?

I wish you the very best bro.
 
its kind of hard to say, becasue i dont know the girl, its either your so clingy that she feels like she needs to hide the fact that she talks to guy freinds becuase you'll just be over possesive and she still loves you and is afriad of getting into a relationship where you are too possesive, or shes a slutt who is using you
 
she isn't leading you on - you are dreaming its more than it is. All she wanted was movie and some sex. If you can accept that whenever the mood strikes her fine, if you want love - wrong address.
 
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