Jillybean4485
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My ex and I broke up in August. I moved out. We have decided to try things again but not live together for a while. things seem really strained. I sometimes feel like he doesn't want to be in the relationship. How can I get him to open up and talk about it? I dont want to end things but if he does, I'd rather know. I have asked him point blank and he says No, he wants us to work things out. But then he acts all distant and avoidant. I don't know what to do. I love him very much so I'm not going to be the one to call things off. I just wish I knew how to get him to open up and tell me what he is feeling. Good or bad i'd rather just know. Any advice? Please?
also could it be that I'm just being overly worried and paranoid bc of how sensitive things are when trying to fix a broken relationship?He does call me just about everyday and we have really good conversations and are not fighting anymore. It's just something seems....off with him. It is hard to get in touch with him at times and he clams up when i try to talk about the relationship
also could it be that I'm just being overly worried and paranoid bc of how sensitive things are when trying to fix a broken relationship?He does call me just about everyday and we have really good conversations and are not fighting anymore. It's just something seems....off with him. It is hard to get in touch with him at times and he clams up when i try to talk about the relationship