disorder when it comes to arguing? A lot of parents and their kids argue, and, of course, the parents are right because they have lived in this world longer than we have, but sometimes can someone argue so much to where they think they are always right, and draw it out so far? I'm an adult and when my dad and I argue, I will simply be making my point, and he continues to argue pretty much acting like a teenager arguing with their parents. Sometimes I make great points, and I'm knowledgeable and have good morals, but he just takes things way too far. You wouldn't know him, unless you are in another room, without him knowing, and listening to our arguments. I'm not even the one to start arguing. I talk calmly to get my point across, but than he starts going on and on, and never knows when to quit, unless you say okay, and walk away. Most parents will say this discussion will end, and sometimes most parents will agree to some degree with their kids, but my dad doesn't. He always wants to be right in an argument no matter what. Yes, he has been in this world longer than I have, but can some people have an obsessive compulsive disorder when it comes to arguing? It's like every single thing I say is wrong, and it is almost like it's emotionally abusing. Yes, he is right a lot, but not every single time. He does agree with me when we talk about certain things, but when it's a topic that can be argued, he will never quit. Than, he turns around and blames me for arguing with him, when all I was doing was talking quietly, and sometimes by the time he is done arguing, it leads to another thing unrelated, and he actually forgets what we were originally talking about. I've been around my friends parents and stuff when they argue, but at least they don't draw it out, and their arguing makes sense. My dad is not obsessive compulsive at all like checking over things a million times, it's like he only is obsessive compulsive when it comes to arguing. So, I was just wondering if you can have this disorder if you argue like he does?
At first I'm calm and patient through most of our arguments, and sometimes he will start yelling at me at the top of his lungs over a stupid argument and than I start hollering at him, and that's why he blames me. He is just yelling at me really loud because he knows I'm actually right, sometimes, and wants me to forget what I said, you get what I'm saying.
At first I'm calm and patient through most of our arguments, and sometimes he will start yelling at me at the top of his lungs over a stupid argument and than I start hollering at him, and that's why he blames me. He is just yelling at me really loud because he knows I'm actually right, sometimes, and wants me to forget what I said, you get what I'm saying.