my current boyfriend is acting weird and i need advice?

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imported_Amber

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I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, anyways lately hes being a jerk and calling me down. Half the time he wont talk to me. Hes been caught doing naughty things online more then once.We live together and get along great over all, i love him with all my heart and hes my best friend but it seems like hes been hurting me emotionally more and more lately, We usually get along real great. I wont leave him. Is there any way to turn a guy around? And any suggestions on what i can do to fix this?
 
Maybe he's losing interest. Spice things uppp. If that doesn't work, talk to him about it. Tell him everything on your mind. Communication is the key to a good relationshippp. (:
 
Maybe he's losing interest. Spice things uppp. If that doesn't work, talk to him about it. Tell him everything on your mind. Communication is the key to a good relationshippp. (:
 
He might be secretly resenting you for some reason. I know I started noticing that I got like this with my GF that I live with. I realized that I was constantly annoyed with her because she never cleaned up after herself. I was doing all the cooking, all the cleaning, working 11 and 12 hour days and coming home to a sink full of dirty dishes that I would have to clean. And on top of that she was turning me down in the bedroom all the time. I noticed that I was starting to be really mean to her and I stopped myself and talked to her about how I had been feeling. Well now the cleaning aspect hasn't really gotten any better but the bedroom has. So maybe he just needs to get some! Sit down and chat with him and tell him how he's been acting lately. He might not realize he's doing it but if he is annoyed with you he certainly knows that and just doesn't want to say anything. Living together is extremely difficult and you really have to talk and communicate. A good fight every now and then is healthy as long as it stays civil and mature.
 
if hes browsing the web for thoses dirty videos and pics... it sounds like hes sexually frustrated. spice things up.
 
Im not a guy, but I think the best way to work through relationship bumps is communication. If you guys are getting along great overall he should talk to, maybe one night sit down with them and call him out on it. Don't sound angry like your attacking him, just tell him how your feeling and explain how you think he's change. Maybe he just doesn't have the same feelings for you anymore and doesn't care how he makes you feel. But, the only way to find out is to talk to him.
couples therapy?
 
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