My child's whining is ruining my relationship? ?

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Whining is one thing that annoys parents. And the relationship I am in ended over my child's whining. Its has cause many argument the stirred into other arguments about other things. How can I stop this.
Let me clarify because I am getting beat up with this parenting thing. I care for my child deeply and do a dam good job parenting. Everyone who meets my child says she is well mannered and perfect example of a good child. My child is always first. My issue is my child's whining behavior is causing major argument with the person I am dating. They say I am too stubborn to listen to their advice. I am raising a my child to be a monster because she whines. The moment she cries or whines I have to deal with that and them in my other ear complaining about it. Eventually that creates a heated argument and stirs into other things. How can I find peace in a household with two complainers. For the record, I am wonderful mother and my child is my first priority. Yet her whining is causing major issues in my household. How can I address the issue with the person I am with that this takes time and patients. How can we as a team work together to come to some resolution.
 
maybe you shouldnt have had a kid and i hope you dont have any more and i dont even no you!maybe you should get out of the relationship and pay more attention to your child!
 
r u really this selfish. to blame a relationship ending over a child? YOUR CHILD. pathetic is what you are. children whine, that is what they are suppose to do. it is your job to talk to your child and find out what is making them act the way they are and it should have nothing do to with the man that you are seeing. but just because that is your child and u care. if a man cannot accept you child and your responsibility and relationship with that child, then he needs to kick rocks and u need to be shot if u continue to literally blame your child because u cant keep a man.. pathetic,, just pathetic.
 
Start acting like a parent. You want the whining to stop? Tell them that every time they whine they will loose something (friends, TV, internet) for a day and if they continue, you will add another day.
 
Start acting like a parent. You want the whining to stop? Tell them that every time they whine they will loose something (friends, TV, internet) for a day and if they continue, you will add another day.
 
Stop dating until your child is old enough to not be whining so much. Sounds like you may have some misplaced priorities.
 
Date people that want kids. And to be fair if a guy doesn't want kids then he shouldn't be wasting your or his time anyways.
 
So what that child should come first you should be more worried about why your child is wining instead of some relationship. Obviously you care more about this relationship than you do your own child. You have a lot of class don't you. Maybe if you spend more time with your child and paid attention your child would stop wining.

Who in their right mind blames a child for a breakup? What kind of person are you?
The guy didn't want you he just used the kid as an excuse so don't go blaming the kid.
 
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