dance. Who is responsible? My 15 year old daughter was at a formal dance. She was dancing. One of her female friends came up to her wanting to dance. She paused to dance but the girl walked away. Shortly after the girl came back and started to "pretend fight", bumping her shoulder against my daughter. They then began to "play fight" and the next thing my daughter knew, her friend was holding her throat falling to the ground. I think an ambulance came and the girl spent the night in the hospital. I'm freaking out!