Corina Hebner
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count - do I say anything? So two years ago my boyfriend cheated on me. He was in a different state and I chose to forgive and forget yet I was completely laughed at by all who knew us behind my back. Particularly my boyfriends brothers girlfriend who was friends with the girl that my boyfriend cheated on me with. They live in a different state then we do and his brother just was down for a visit. He acted as if he did not have a girlfriend, he hooked up with 3 girls that I know of and was asking girls for their phone numbers right in front of us. (his girlfriend stayed home) Yet he would talk to his girlfriend when she called and tell her he loved her blah blah. She has sent me three messages over myspace asking me if something is going on. I don't know her, we aren't even friends on myspace. I don't feel like I should answer her question or even get involved but I just feel like it's ironic that when this happened to me she laughed, now that she thinks it's happening to her she feels like she can ask me what is going on? Instead of writing her back I would much rather just post something on my myspace in general about the irony of laughing when it happens to me, then crying when it happens to you. Is this completely childish and out of line? I get that it might be and that is why I am posting this question to see what other people think of the situation. I do actually feel bad for her and I called him a dog to his face and he just laughed, which made me feel even more bad for her because he obviously could care less about her or her feelings. If anyone has any sugguestions as to what I should say or maybe if I should not say and just leave it alone. Or if someone has a good quote about how ironic this situation is then please let me know. Thanks for reading -
No i don't think she knows he is cheating on her, I think she suspects but will not leave him and if I were in her shoes I personally would want to know. I am not the one to tell her and I probably will stay out of it but she did rub my face in it when it happened to me. just an FYI but I think that I will take the highroad on this just because I don't want to get involved. Thanks olderwiser100a -
No i don't think she knows he is cheating on her, I think she suspects but will not leave him and if I were in her shoes I personally would want to know. I am not the one to tell her and I probably will stay out of it but she did rub my face in it when it happened to me. just an FYI but I think that I will take the highroad on this just because I don't want to get involved. Thanks olderwiser100a -