I got bad job news the other day and was really overwhelmed and upset and he just said, "well youre just going to have to deal with it." I was so hurt and he didnt think he did anything wrong b/c he didnt mean it in a bad way. I told him it doesnt matter who is right or wrong, he should just care that Im hurt if he loves me. He lef thte rooma nd we didnt talk the rest of the night, while I sat in our bedroom and cried all night, feeling totally abandoned.
Im not expecting miracles, I know men dont get womens' emotions, but i feel he is so cold about this, and when it happens, we just act like it never happened and I'm resenting him. Im a talk it out kind of person, so this makes me feel worried about our relationship, but what do I do if he is so stubborn?! He actually gets angry at me for being hurt! Please help!
(Adults only please)
Im not expecting miracles, I know men dont get womens' emotions, but i feel he is so cold about this, and when it happens, we just act like it never happened and I'm resenting him. Im a talk it out kind of person, so this makes me feel worried about our relationship, but what do I do if he is so stubborn?! He actually gets angry at me for being hurt! Please help!
(Adults only please)