My boyfriend was misleading another girl HELP!!!!!!?

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lived w/ my bf close to 3 yrs. He wanted to marry me but I was young n needed space n wanted to see other people so he moved out. We started talking again and decided to work on things but he met a girl while talking. We had gotten into some arguments about her but he assured me they were just friends. Week later we decided on being exclusive and he told me he did not want anyone else. I noticed he was acting a little different but nothing alarming. I was doing whatever I could to make it work.

Couple of weeks later he goes out and turns out she is at the bar with him and his friends. He got angry when I told him I was going to go there so I didn't b/c I felt unwanted. The next day I saw a text on his phone "good night beautiful" to her. I freaked out and called her, she said they were just friends but he was flirting and very suggestive. He swore up and down nothing more ever went on b/w them and I have PROOF that it didn't but I saw his phone bill and 100's of texts were exchanged whenever I wasn't around.

I told him that was it and that it was over. He made her call me to tell me that nothing happened would never speak to her again and definitely hasn't spoken to her at all.

He has always loved me unconditionally n never been this sneaky but I am devastated to know he was not honest with me or her for that matter and was misleading her. HELP
 
Don't waste your time, you can do better than him.

Life is short and the more time you waste with him thinking things will eventually work out, the less time you'll have in life to be happy. You probably have an attachment with him, which is why you'd rather hope it works and you'd rather give him a chance, but you have to face reality. I'm not saying he's not the type to change, but more often than not they don't.

So again, move on. You deserve better.
 
Did you ever see "When Harry Met Sally"?

Men and women can not be just friends. Someone pulled that crap on me a few years ago and I was suspicious and as it turned out, rightfully so. He swore they were just friends until I found some of his ICQ messages and confronted him. I also checked his cell phone bill for more proof. It's been over 10 years now and nothing has happened since (that I know about) but I'm still wary and always suspicious.

Once you lose trust and respect it's very difficult to get it back.

Good luck.
 
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