I've been happily with my 21 year old boyfriend (I'm 20) for a year and a half. He is an extremely respectful, thoughtful, caring, genuine guy with an amazing sense of humour.
I'm a girl who lives off romance, love and devotion. He's always there for me and has always been more than happy just to spend a long day holding me in his arms, kissing me softly on the lips and face and taking me out on nice dates. I told him at the beginning of our relationship that sexual activity doesn't interest me too much, isn't important to me and that I'm not the kind of girl to have desires or curiosity about it. I've always thought that it's a purely male desire.
He has always been respectful of my feelings towards sexual activity and has always done everything within my boundaries to make me happy. He's always taken note of everything I desire in terms of our relationship and always made it happen and never brings up sex, even in a flirty way.
Last week myself, him and his best friend went camping. I overheard him telling his best friend that he was insanely attracted to me and would like to give me oral sex one day. Naturally, I was disappointed that he would want to do such things with me and introduce sexual activity into our relationship. I thought it was pretty vulgar of him to say.
How should I deal with this? I feel as if my boyfriend has been with me this whole time based on lies.
I'm a girl who lives off romance, love and devotion. He's always there for me and has always been more than happy just to spend a long day holding me in his arms, kissing me softly on the lips and face and taking me out on nice dates. I told him at the beginning of our relationship that sexual activity doesn't interest me too much, isn't important to me and that I'm not the kind of girl to have desires or curiosity about it. I've always thought that it's a purely male desire.
He has always been respectful of my feelings towards sexual activity and has always done everything within my boundaries to make me happy. He's always taken note of everything I desire in terms of our relationship and always made it happen and never brings up sex, even in a flirty way.
Last week myself, him and his best friend went camping. I overheard him telling his best friend that he was insanely attracted to me and would like to give me oral sex one day. Naturally, I was disappointed that he would want to do such things with me and introduce sexual activity into our relationship. I thought it was pretty vulgar of him to say.
How should I deal with this? I feel as if my boyfriend has been with me this whole time based on lies.