My boyfriend wants sex alot.?

[Jessica]

ok so iv been dating this guy for about a year now and i was his first time, but he wasnt mine. he says he feels so special and close to me when we do that.

right now we have sex maybe twice a month but he wants more.

To me i am scared that it is going to be what our relationship turns into and i always accuse him of always just being in it for sex, because i want more then just that and he says he does too and that a healthy sexual relationship has sex a couple times a week and does other things in the relationship.

He always tries to make me feel good and please me and not him, because he wants me to feel like how he feels doing it with someone he loves. he wants me to feel the connection.

but i just dont ever feel special after, i always start worrying about how i did, did he like it, all of that stuff. even though every time he tells me he loves feeling that close connection with me. but after every time i just feel like all he wants is sex.

i love the guy to death and i love having sex with him, i just dont understand why i dont feel as specail as he does after.

what could be the problem??? could it be something with my past relationships? what could we do to make this better? make me enjoy it more.

 

[MrZero]

a guy is a very easy being to please sexually. basically anything that sexually arouses him and rubs his penis is gonna work for him sooner or later. additionally, any sex is good sex generally speaking.

dont worry ever about him being pleased, the sex wont stop until hes finished and satisfied. as long as you are happy at the end of the day thats really all that should matter to u.

additionally, very rare is the occasion where you will have a boyfriend who wont want sex. twice a month would be considered rare to many couples. i have friends who have sex almost every day. its just as long as you are both ok with however frequently you have sex that matters, and if you cant come to an agreement then maybe its time to part ways