My boyfriend sucks at sex and won't listen to suggestions!?

christine

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My boyfriend is 21, and was a virgin till we got together. I'm 18.

Early in our relationship, he was super horny, and we'd do it like, 11 times a day. It got to a point where I was so sore down there that I had to go see a doctor.

It's been about 3 months and sex with him just seems to get worse and worse. Firstly, he doesn't bother with foreplay whatsoever, he says that it's tiring and it makes him lose his erection. That really sucks because whenever he just dives into it ( which is about 100% of the time) I can't get off, and it hurts because I'm dry. I've resorted to lubrication, and then faking my orgasms. It's been like that for 3 months and I'm frustrated.

I've tried talking to him several times, and suggesting what to do to get me aroused. He never listens and goes " yeah,yeah" like he's heard it all before. He thinks that every thing's fine the way it is because he's getting off, whether I am or not.

It's baffling because he watches a staggering amount of porn and yet seems to know nothing about sex.

..help?
 
Tell him the truth.. Don't fake the orgasm because if you do then he will think he's doing it great. Show him he's doing nothing at all for you maybe then it'll open eyes.

He is clearly not putting any effort into pleasing you at all.

If it still isn't working out, next time find someone with more experience.
 
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