Im a guy, and know exactly what type of person that chump is. So listen very carefully; Without saying a word to him, you need to make all the legal arrangements to get him out of there. Then you can hand him the notice. After that, stay as far away from him as you can. Break off all ties and NEVER let him back in your life. He's out to get cha, Seriously! And if you dont, it will be the biggest burden in your life. You'll find somebody soon who'll treat you like a lady and with high respect.