my boyfriend might be gay or either has low sex drive?

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my boyfriend and i have been dating for quit a while now and to tell you the truth i don t know if i am sure that he could be the one for different reasons anyways the thing is the we been having little or no sex it is not anything new to tell you the truth it has been like that i think since the beginning and i am getting kind of tired of it because i am a women who has more sex drive than him and wants more sex, the fact is he puts to many excuses in the way i don t know if it is me or if he can be gay. it would be nothing new because most of his brothers are gay except him and one other one . the thing is if he is gay how can i get him to come out. i have told him straight out are you gay. he has said no and even laughs about it. what is the next step how can i decode what he might be is it normal he has low sex drive how can i amp it. thank you for you comments and help
how do i get him to come out of the closet if he is gay or such. how can i actually know. plus sometimes when we go have sex his dick goes down and im like what the *** and he is like sorry im just tired or makes up an excuse
 
I think you shold dump him and get someone who you can boogie with ;)

edit: grahams plan sounds great for pelasuring yoru husband, but dont do that. be true to yourself. how the hell is that a healtyh relatinshop. go find someone who doesnt have all these issues and can carry on a normal adult relationship.
 
Maybe you haven't found the kink that excites him yet but I have a suggestion.

You like more sex than he does so why not come to an arrangement with him that you will love only him but he has to allow you to have sex with other guys. Only sex, not go out with them or have any kind of relationship other than sex, regularly or one time only.

My guess is that it will excite him and that whe you are still wet from the last guy he will want to have sex with you too, so you get 2 for the price of one and he gets a little bit of male involvement while having sex with you.

I am not suggesting you give a show. You could if you want but you could just have him wait outside in the car while you are doing the other guy, then have him drive you home quickly to finish the job.
 
I wouldn't say he is gay but he could be nervous and have performance anxiety about sex or had a horrible sexual experience and is afraid to try again. Another thing to consider is does he suffer from depression or any mental illness. Most mental illnesses can kill sex drive or certain medications can kill it too. One more thing he could be addicted to porn and have hard time ( no pun intended) getting aroused for real life sex or anything sexual that's not a porn video or picture. Just some things to consider.

Good luck
 
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