You're my melody.
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Every time we have a conversation, there's always at least one time where he mentions sex. We are currently in a long distance relationship at the moment (due to our colleges).
I really care for him. At first when he brought up sex he kept talking about it & I just said "Do you only want me for sex?" I flat out asked him & he looked really hurt & taken aback & said "NO! Why would you think that? I like you because of you, not because I just want sex." & he acted really hurt for a little so I apologized & then we just talked about other things.
Our conversations always start just about us talking about anything, talking about our day, talking about how we are, how school is, any interesting things that are happening at the moment with us or something, talking about visiting each other, etc, but it seems like all our conversations end in us talking about sex. I think it's because we are planning on having sex next time he visits.
My biggest concern is just...do you think he only wants me for sex? Or do you think he brings it up so much because we are planning on having it?
I'm 20 & he's 26 by the way. He's used to having long relationships, his last relationship was 4 years long. So I highly doubt he's a guy who would have sex then leave a girl. But, I'm just wondering what others opinions are. Thanks!
I really care for him. At first when he brought up sex he kept talking about it & I just said "Do you only want me for sex?" I flat out asked him & he looked really hurt & taken aback & said "NO! Why would you think that? I like you because of you, not because I just want sex." & he acted really hurt for a little so I apologized & then we just talked about other things.
Our conversations always start just about us talking about anything, talking about our day, talking about how we are, how school is, any interesting things that are happening at the moment with us or something, talking about visiting each other, etc, but it seems like all our conversations end in us talking about sex. I think it's because we are planning on having sex next time he visits.
My biggest concern is just...do you think he only wants me for sex? Or do you think he brings it up so much because we are planning on having it?
I'm 20 & he's 26 by the way. He's used to having long relationships, his last relationship was 4 years long. So I highly doubt he's a guy who would have sex then leave a girl. But, I'm just wondering what others opinions are. Thanks!