my boyfriend is in marine boot camp. i feel wierd about us now. will it go away?

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he left april 12th for boot camp. i was so sad and he told me he was confused about us. Then he called me like seven times before he actually flew out. I got a 2 page letter of apology saying how sorry he was and how he wants to get married. I got another one today (4/27/09) saying how he dreamed of me and almost cryed when he woke up. i felt that way too when he left. I am ok with him being gone now though. Is that bad? i think i feel this way because he is gone so long i have no choice. I am going to his graduation in july. Will i latch right onto him and realize i want him? I dont party or hang out with other guys cuz its not the same and i see me marrying him so thats why i am so confused. I know i would hate it if he wrote me saying he didnt want to be together. Maybe its because ive waited so long to hear him say how much he loves me?PLEASE HELP
 
It's not unusual to get used to them being gone, you adapt to the situation. I'm doing all right with my husband being deployed right now, I still miss him and wish he were here though. It sounds like you've adjusted to something you can't change which is very healthy, I probably would have done a lot better when my husband went to boot camp if I had been able to do that.
 
when you love someone you never seem to stop missing them when they are gone. Either you feel weird because your not use to it and you miss him terribly or you arent sure of your relationship! Remember your the only one who can make you feel weird or uncomfortable. You should be comfortable with him. just wait and see how it makes things.
 
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