He got charged w/ aggravated battery on Nov. 2008 b/c he broke my jaw. I punched him several times before he did and we were both heavily intoxicated. I didn't end up going to jail tho but he didn't say anything. Anyway, his case is still pending and the cops found out that we were still contacting each other and they placed a warrant out for his arrest. Last night, we got into a argument and I went home and fell asleep. He came up to my window wanting to talk but I told him I was sleepy and that he should go home and sleep and that we would talk in the morning. His parents came home and found him sleeping w/ a rifle held up to his neck and a hole in the wall [from the rifle being shot], they called the cops on him and he was placed under arrest.
I'm not allowed to contact him in any way and I still love him very much, but I think that he was just under a lot of pressure with his ex wife threatening to take his kid away and the legal issues. All I can seem to do right now is cry. My parents and his parents keep telling me to stay away from him and we shouldn't be together but no one seems to understand that just b/c we made some mistakes in the past doesn't mean that we are good people.
I don't have 5000 dollars to bail him out and his mom told me she isn't going to bail him out. All I can do is seem to cry. How do I keep it together??
I'm not allowed to contact him in any way and I still love him very much, but I think that he was just under a lot of pressure with his ex wife threatening to take his kid away and the legal issues. All I can seem to do right now is cry. My parents and his parents keep telling me to stay away from him and we shouldn't be together but no one seems to understand that just b/c we made some mistakes in the past doesn't mean that we are good people.
I don't have 5000 dollars to bail him out and his mom told me she isn't going to bail him out. All I can do is seem to cry. How do I keep it together??