my boyfriend is going to college in the fall and i'll still be in highschool....

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Emmie

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...suggestions for making it work!? i'm going to be a senior in highschool in the fall but my boyfriend (currently been dating for 7 months) will be going to college in the fall. it is only an hour and 15 min away from me and he will have a car there so transportation will be easy. however, he will be busy w/hockey and school which means we wont get to see each other as much as we'd like. i'm worried that i will let my insecurities get the best of me and i will ruin our now great relationship by getting jealous or worrying too much. he has always been faithful to me and is an amazing boyfriend whom i trust, but deep inside i'm worried he'll find a girl he likes better than me or something. any suggestions from people who have had one person in highschool and one in college or 2 ppl at different colleges? tips to make the relationship work? b/c i really want to stay with him!
one of the reasons i'm worried is because he is a very flirtatious and outgoing person. he doesn't mean anything by it but he seems to talk to and become friends with every person he meets! boy or girl.
 
I apologize for sounding rude but move on.

He will lose touch. Total disaster awaiting. College changes you. It's so exciting. You kind of get lost in it all. You have every right to be worried.
 
well i would just suggest not to worry
if its meant to be everything will work out
and if things don't work out then he just wasn't the guy for you
 
sweety you can make it work if you want too, hes entering a new stage in his life and he might realize that he wants diffrent things in life so you have to prepare yourself for that too.

in the mean time try some activites that you can do togather on the internet or plan your day throughly when he comes to you, because they do hate it when they feel unappreciated specially the outgoing type ^^

i tried this with my boyfriend of long distance and it worked so far, we each take 3 pictures of our daily life just any pictures, and send them to each other and talk about them, its a great ice breaker and it will make you guys feel closer i promise :)

good luck
 
Last year my boyfriend went to college as a freshman and I was a senior in high school. So I can relate a great deal!

I was really afraid my boyfriend would find another girl and leave me. It's mainly caused because I became so attached to him being with me in school previous years, and then I had to go without him. It's just something you'll have to get use to once the school year starts. If you really trust him and if you guys love one another then things will be fine.

You both will need to figure out how you can meet up when school starts up. Perhaps on the weekends, or after school you could help each other with homework. Maybe you could even go to his hockey practices and games, then hang out afterwords. I only got to see my boyfriend once a week, but the suspense that I built up while we were away from each other made our time together so much more special. Things will be a bit tougher now that he's becoming an adult, and it's very hard to accept that. But like I mentioned before, if you love one another you will try to be understanding and figure something out.
 
Last year my boyfriend went to college as a freshman and I was a senior in high school. So I can relate a great deal!

I was really afraid my boyfriend would find another girl and leave me. It's mainly caused because I became so attached to him being with me in school previous years, and then I had to go without him. It's just something you'll have to get use to once the school year starts. If you really trust him and if you guys love one another then things will be fine.

You both will need to figure out how you can meet up when school starts up. Perhaps on the weekends, or after school you could help each other with homework. Maybe you could even go to his hockey practices and games, then hang out afterwords. I only got to see my boyfriend once a week, but the suspense that I built up while we were away from each other made our time together so much more special. Things will be a bit tougher now that he's becoming an adult, and it's very hard to accept that. But like I mentioned before, if you love one another you will try to be understanding and figure something out.
 
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