my boyfriend has no job and lives with me; is it wrong to want him GONE everytime we

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argue? ok, so i have an on and off boyfriend of the last 6 years. we are ON now cause we moved in together as of Feb 09. well guess what, everytime we argue, i just wanna tell his ass to get the F OUT. i know... stand by your man when he down.. blah blah... well look im a young good lookin african american female, why should i put up with this? i feel like i shouldn't be feeling like this... HELP!
 
smack his ass all the way over to McDonald's and get him a job. full time. and start paying the bloody bills. it's not your responsibility to take care of him. you should be taken out to dinner, and be bought fancy jewellery (though i doubt a job at McDonald's would get you that). i totally agree with you. i wouldn't date him if i were you. tell him to get a job otherwise consider him single and homeless.. sorry if i seemed mean.rude but lazy guys are just..disgusting.
 
no- he needs to get atleast parttime job- 30 hrs...
cant be this hard to find- honestly you may need to sit down & help him look- some guys need motivation- other than themselves!

hang in there
 
It's wrong for you to live with a man who's not your husband.
It's wrong to support a man who's living off of you. He won't buy the cow if he can get the milk for free.
Being African-american or female has nothing to do with using common sense.

Common sense says, "Put him out". Then make sure the next guy has (and keeps) a job before you enter a relationship.

Most importantly, start and keep a relationship with God through Jesus Christ. Not religion. He will change your heart and guide the right man to you, if you delight in Him. Ask Jesus Christ to come into your heart, to forgive you of any sin. Thank Him for dying for you so you can have eternal life. Confess that you believe He's the Son of God who has risen from the dead. Tell Him that you'll live for Him.

Stay in contact by talking to the Lord everyday, and follow His Life Manual (the Bible) daily, starting with St. John. Make friends at a local Bible-teaching church and tell others about Jesus.
 
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