...as cheating? Me and my boyfriend have been a couple for about 4 months. We got serious pretty fast...He told me he was falling for me quite early on and now he says he loves me. I love him too but yesterday I found a video on his computer of him having sex with another girl. When I talked to him about it, he said it was an old video uploaded from his old laptop. But it wasn't that old really as he says they did it when my boyfriend and I had hooked up about 3 times already. I know we hadn't gotten serious yet and didn't really know eachother, and I know that since then it's only been me for him and no one else. Initially I had been quite shocked to find the video but I understood that he and I weren't exactly a couple yet when he made it. We made up and he said he loved me again and apologised and deleted the video, saying it was a stupid video anyway. I was fine with that, he doesn't even see that girl anymore. God knows who she was.
But now I'm starting to wonder if I'm being too soft on him. Did it count as cheating even though we weren't exclusive anyway? Should I dump him?
Please help. We really care about eachother and he really doesn't want to lose me so I don't want to end it either. But I don't want him to think he can get away with stuff like this in the future. xxx
But now I'm starting to wonder if I'm being too soft on him. Did it count as cheating even though we weren't exclusive anyway? Should I dump him?
Please help. We really care about eachother and he really doesn't want to lose me so I don't want to end it either. But I don't want him to think he can get away with stuff like this in the future. xxx