My boyfriend flashed his c*ck on webcam. I wasn't ready. How should I say?

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Last time I was online with my bf, he said he was horny and all. I was not wearing anything so sexy at the time though. When I went down to see someone at the door, and came back I saw my bf completely naked on web cam. I was so furious that he taken to next level out of sudden. I was not into that. I'd dirty talk and stuff, but showing every bit of yourself is not what I would do. I think it's a really cheap move and ditch it so much. I loath my bf now I could not even look at his picture. I don't know how would I react when I see him. It's not that I'm not attracted to him sexually, it's just that I feel like he's wanting me just for the sex. How should I tell him that? I love him, but if he don't stop this behavior, I would start to think that he's in it just for lust, not love. Please help.
 
I understand that you are feeling rushed and skeptical about his intentions. You need to tell him that things are going too fast. I wouldn't tell him that you think he is using you, but is there anything else that would lead you to believe that? When you love someone you obviously want to have sex with them right? Guys are WAY different than we are. They need to have it all the time and it is actually psychically painful at times if they don't have it. He may be turned on by you and love you at the same time. Especially if you are dirty talking. That is going to get any guy riled up. I would take a look at the relationship as a whole. How long have you been together?
 
guys are horny. he might also like you.. its hard...such a fine line..its very easy for girls to feel used.... but hopefully he really does like you also... hope you can figure it out soon. talk to him.. he should respect your wishes...
 
when guys do that they are either wanting for you for sex or showing you that he loves you enough to take it to the next level when you talk have a serious talk like ask him if he loves you if not dump him!!!
 
What are you? A 12-year old virgin? Get over it. If it really upset you so much you could of always come back by saying something like “oh gee, I thought I saw a penis only is was too small.” Then you could hurt his feelings and come off more mature than you really are.

If this is the biggest hardship you have had to overcome with a boyfriend, you have been spoiled or don’t have any experience with boys at all. This won’t be the first time you’ll be upset.
 
Hi. If you want to wait, I admire you so much. I was the same way. Now in college. What you should do is tell him you aren't go to have actual sex with him. Fool around maybe..and flat out tell him that if that is specifically what he wants you are not the girl for him. If he breaks up with you- then you know what he was after. This way you don't give in against your morals, and get heartbroken!
 
Guys like sex, love or not. And if you've been together for a while(long enough to say you love him?), and you havent given him any, I can understand why he would do that.

He doesn't sound like your type, not that there is anything wrong with your morals, but you should probably find a guy that's cool with abstinance and has similar moral views to yours. If your own boyfriend is freaking you out, break up with him.
 
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