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Rachel P
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I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. At first we were really passionate towards eachother, but over the last year or so this has gone down and down. It is always me who initiates sex and now, often when i try to initiate it he gets angry and frustrated that i am being selfish and too demanding. If it was a matter of him having a low sex drive i could make more sense of it but he watches porn all the time. We are in a long distance relationships so i really notice it when we haven't seen eachother for 2-3 weeks and out first night together he turns me down. My self-esteem has got lower and lower, and every time i try to talk about this he just gets angry and it makes it worse. I don't know what to do. I am losing confidence and then it becomes a vicious circle because he mustn't fancy me as much when i am down or stressed etc. He claims it's stress sometimes, or depression..there's numerous excuses that individually might make sense but it's at the point now where there is always some excuse. I'm fed up of feeling like this. I don't think i'm unattractive i am slim, 23, take care of myself, do a fair amount of exercise. But i feel completly lost and trapped.
I also feel pretty sure that he loves me very much because in other ways he's all commited to the relationship..he wants to go travelling with me next year, he talks about our future together etc. Any advice i'd appreciate so much!
I also feel pretty sure that he loves me very much because in other ways he's all commited to the relationship..he wants to go travelling with me next year, he talks about our future together etc. Any advice i'd appreciate so much!