We have been together for 4 years and we act pretty much like roomates. When we do have sex I am usually bent over telling him to hurry up. There is this guy in school who I am attracted too and he is me as well. I want to persue it but at the same time I dont. What do I do? I even have sexual fantasy's about this guy.
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My Boyfriend and I don't really have sex anymore. Should I pursue someone else?
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Colorado Guy
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I'd be willing to wager your issues go farther than just sexual. I think there is some level of comfort - ie, roommate type - that you achieve after 4 years. If you're still in school, I'm guessing you're still young and other options are pretty attractive still.
So, if you really do love your boyfriend, I'd have some talks with him and work out the issues that make you repulsed in bed. Or, if it's just not working, spare yourself (and him) the misery and just break up.
So, if you really do love your boyfriend, I'd have some talks with him and work out the issues that make you repulsed in bed. Or, if it's just not working, spare yourself (and him) the misery and just break up.
amyjessica21
New member
It looks like you and your boyfriend have lost your spark. I would suggest that you do move on from him, but remember to make this decision for yourself. Sit down and think about the positive and negatives.
Make sure you don't rush into another relationship though, this could hurt your boyfriend. If you are really good friends now, maybe you can be if you break up, so that's a reason not to jump into another relationship.
If you feel that you can change your relationship to be new and exciting again, try new sex positions or new sexual activities to re-light the spark.
Hope you work things out!
Make sure you don't rush into another relationship though, this could hurt your boyfriend. If you are really good friends now, maybe you can be if you break up, so that's a reason not to jump into another relationship.
If you feel that you can change your relationship to be new and exciting again, try new sex positions or new sexual activities to re-light the spark.
Hope you work things out!
amyjessica21
New member
It looks like you and your boyfriend have lost your spark. I would suggest that you do move on from him, but remember to make this decision for yourself. Sit down and think about the positive and negatives.
Make sure you don't rush into another relationship though, this could hurt your boyfriend. If you are really good friends now, maybe you can be if you break up, so that's a reason not to jump into another relationship.
If you feel that you can change your relationship to be new and exciting again, try new sex positions or new sexual activities to re-light the spark.
Hope you work things out!
Make sure you don't rush into another relationship though, this could hurt your boyfriend. If you are really good friends now, maybe you can be if you break up, so that's a reason not to jump into another relationship.
If you feel that you can change your relationship to be new and exciting again, try new sex positions or new sexual activities to re-light the spark.
Hope you work things out!
amyjessica21
New member
It looks like you and your boyfriend have lost your spark. I would suggest that you do move on from him, but remember to make this decision for yourself. Sit down and think about the positive and negatives.
Make sure you don't rush into another relationship though, this could hurt your boyfriend. If you are really good friends now, maybe you can be if you break up, so that's a reason not to jump into another relationship.
If you feel that you can change your relationship to be new and exciting again, try new sex positions or new sexual activities to re-light the spark.
Hope you work things out!
Make sure you don't rush into another relationship though, this could hurt your boyfriend. If you are really good friends now, maybe you can be if you break up, so that's a reason not to jump into another relationship.
If you feel that you can change your relationship to be new and exciting again, try new sex positions or new sexual activities to re-light the spark.
Hope you work things out!
amyjessica21
New member
It looks like you and your boyfriend have lost your spark. I would suggest that you do move on from him, but remember to make this decision for yourself. Sit down and think about the positive and negatives.
Make sure you don't rush into another relationship though, this could hurt your boyfriend. If you are really good friends now, maybe you can be if you break up, so that's a reason not to jump into another relationship.
If you feel that you can change your relationship to be new and exciting again, try new sex positions or new sexual activities to re-light the spark.
Hope you work things out!
Make sure you don't rush into another relationship though, this could hurt your boyfriend. If you are really good friends now, maybe you can be if you break up, so that's a reason not to jump into another relationship.
If you feel that you can change your relationship to be new and exciting again, try new sex positions or new sexual activities to re-light the spark.
Hope you work things out!
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ClaustroX
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Well, do you want a relationship just based on sex? Cause it's clearly about love too. If you don't feel like a connection with you and your boyfriend anymore, why stay with him? Like, don't hurt him in the long run by cheating or anything. If you really think you and that other guy are gonna hit it off love wise. Then go with him, if not, then don't. But if you don't have feelings for your current boyfriend.. then i think you should stay single, til you actually have feelings for someone.
Having a boyfriend isn't always about the sex.
Having a boyfriend isn't always about the sex.