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Black&Blue
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My boyfriend and i are very much in love.
I've been staying with him for two months... but i haven't moved in properly with him as i still go home for things i need, or to take things back etc.
He made space in drawers and cabinets for me to store my things, and started asking me to move in completely a while ago. It's taken all that time up to now for me to decide that i want to.
He hasn't stopped talking about it since then, and i'm really happy that he wants me to move in so much.
The only problem is this:
We argue.
Most of the arguments are about me being self centred, that i take things too literally, and this morning he said that i was the least sexual person he's ever met. We can wind each other up and it doesn't help that we can argue for such a long period of time. It's always who's right and who's wrong, who's to blame, that kind of thing. The longest argument went on for 4 hours straight.
I assume responsibility for being argumentative and difficult as i'm a fiery person, and i've already told him i'm working on it every time we argue.
But we still argue. I'm a Leo.
This morning he went to work, didn't give me a kiss goodbye, leaving me in his house with our dog. The only things he said after telling me i'm the least sexual person he's ever known, is that i should do some exercise today, and that he needs me to clean one of the cars he's selling. He also didn't want to talk about the stigma created this morning, he's never left without sorting things out before.
The arguing is getting more frequent, and i don't want it to carry on anymore. Every time we argue, it makes me feel like moving in isn't the right choice, and it also makes me feel insecure about our relationship.
I love him so much, i've never known anyone like him... the chemistry we have and the way he treats me (minus the arguing moments) is more than i could ever dream of. I don't want anyone else, and i'm completely committed to him.
I just can't deal with the arguments, it tears me up and makes me feel uncomfortable in his home.
I've been staying with him for two months... but i haven't moved in properly with him as i still go home for things i need, or to take things back etc.
He made space in drawers and cabinets for me to store my things, and started asking me to move in completely a while ago. It's taken all that time up to now for me to decide that i want to.
He hasn't stopped talking about it since then, and i'm really happy that he wants me to move in so much.
The only problem is this:
We argue.
Most of the arguments are about me being self centred, that i take things too literally, and this morning he said that i was the least sexual person he's ever met. We can wind each other up and it doesn't help that we can argue for such a long period of time. It's always who's right and who's wrong, who's to blame, that kind of thing. The longest argument went on for 4 hours straight.
I assume responsibility for being argumentative and difficult as i'm a fiery person, and i've already told him i'm working on it every time we argue.
But we still argue. I'm a Leo.
This morning he went to work, didn't give me a kiss goodbye, leaving me in his house with our dog. The only things he said after telling me i'm the least sexual person he's ever known, is that i should do some exercise today, and that he needs me to clean one of the cars he's selling. He also didn't want to talk about the stigma created this morning, he's never left without sorting things out before.
The arguing is getting more frequent, and i don't want it to carry on anymore. Every time we argue, it makes me feel like moving in isn't the right choice, and it also makes me feel insecure about our relationship.
I love him so much, i've never known anyone like him... the chemistry we have and the way he treats me (minus the arguing moments) is more than i could ever dream of. I don't want anyone else, and i'm completely committed to him.
I just can't deal with the arguments, it tears me up and makes me feel uncomfortable in his home.