My boyfriend and I are planning on having sex for the first time-advice?

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and we really love each other. We're both 17. We're planning on having sex soon and neither of us have ever done it. I need some advice or tips. I'm a little anxious about how things will go...
 
Ouch! I think it's going to be a painful adventure for you. You may want to start with the oral stuff first!
 
Advice:You need to be on a good form of birth controlHe needs to use condomsTogether, you two need to have enough money, or your own health insurance (not your parent's) to pay your medical bills if you get pregnant...or need an abortion. Also, money ot raise the kid, if you had it and kept it.Until you've got all that covered, keep your panties on.
 
Don't. Don't waste your relationship.Don't waste your relationship on something thats not meant for you now, at such a young age.
 
OK AVOID TALKING ALOT WHEN UR ABOUT 2 DO W/E ... TALKING FUCKS THINGS UP AND JUST MAKES THINGS AKWARD.PEOPLE HAVE BEEN HAVING SEX 4 HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF YRS. SO I BET U WILL B FINEHAVE FUN!! HAHA
 
you are too young..if you really love each other wait till you are married, it will be more special!!Sex isn't great, you might even feel guilty afterwards!
 
make sure he wears a rubber and you're on birth control. otherwise, make sure u have $60 for the morning after pill. otherwise, just enjoy it. it'll prolly be a little awkward but don't go in there expecting to be like porn stars and you'll be just fine. just be safe and responsible.
 
protection definitely... if it starts to hurt I'd suggest astroglide or K Y jelly to "apply where it hurts" be confident and let thing flow... I was a bit nervous my first time but things came naturally as if I subconciously already knew what to do
 
Every one has sex for the first time, some time in their lives. Some early, some late. But they all seem to manage it, well enough. It may be good or not so good, but practice does help.But what ever you do, take precautions, use Birth Control Pills and Condoms. Many a girl has become pregnant at their first sexual encounter. So don't become one of those.You needn't go the whole way at first, just work up to it, laying in bed naked, will usually do the trick. Kiss and hold each other, caress each other, and the rest will fall into place.
 
OMG. You are not in love at 17, trust me. My advice, DON"T DO IT. I was in the same siutation as you, and I ended up giving it up to him only to have the guy who said, "I Love you so much", leave me a week later for some other whore. So, dont' do it. It isn't love. Losing your virginity is losing your innocence. You can NEVER get it back. You two have only been together 6 months too, come on. If you do it, make sure he wears protection. We don't need anymore kids having kids. It's really up to you though, but be ready for the consequences!
 
if you are asking a lot of strangers on hereyou are not ready..............so don't do it
 
i would advice you to wait, but if you feel that ur ready then make sure u use a condom!! especially since its his first time and most accidents happen when both ppl involved are inexperienced. Also, just relax. A girls first time isn't the most "pleasurable" experience especially if ur tense.
 
Well, I'd wait until I was married, because that's a part of my faith. But I guess lust will probably always overcome morals, so I'll tell you what I know (even though I have no personal experience, my sister is 17 and seven months pregnant). So let's begin. You need to be on birth control for at least a month before engaging in sexual activity- it needs to regulate in your system. Or he needs to be VERY careful in using a condom, and disengaging from your sexual activity if he feels the slightest break. It's going to hurt when your hymen is broken. Just in case you don't know, you have a membrane at the vaginal opening that will be broken when he penetrates. Now, some girls already have broken their hymen from tampons, biking, etc., so it may not hurt when he penetrates. There WILL be blood when he breaks your hymen. Keep a change of sheets.Request for your boyfriend to ease himself into you at first, then wait until the pain subsides in your vagina, then tell him to continue. It will be a lot easier this way. Don't expect it to be a romance novel sex scene. It'll probably be him trying to get as much sexual pleasure as possible, and it may not be equally emotional for both of you. Sex is something meant for marriage, as it is used to make children. If you don't want to end up like my poor sister, I would suggest you hold off. Notice that once you lose your virginity, you can never get it back. You can't go to Walmart and buy "three boxes of virginity, please". I hope you use your best judgment.
 
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