My boyfriend always want me to perform belly dance for him when were alone,...

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Breezy

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As your boyfriend and someone who loves and cares for you he should respect your decision because it obviously means something to you from a personal and religious stand point. If he cannot respect, and appreciate your decision and stand on this matter the he isn't worth marrying. Im sorry to say :( but I know there are plenty of men out there who will respect your decision and be willing to wait because you are worth it.
 
I say hold onto your beliefs. If he doesn't respect your beliefs then he probably isn't for you especially if he doesn't want to understand. I think it's disrespectful of him to not respect your beliefs and I don't think you should give into his disrespectful request.
 
...but he wants sex afterward? He's a christian asian guy. Christians in this country are liberal about sex before marriage. I'm a traditional arab girl. I'm also a moderated muslim. Sex is forbidden before marriage in my culture. He knows it, but he keeps on asking. I love him to death. I'll give myself to him when we get marry after we both graduate from college. It's not that he doesn't understand. He doesn't want to understand. Should I stop dancing for him until he changes, but I'll risk him loosing interest in me ?
 
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