my bf jus tried to chat me up in the street...he didnt realise it was me!!!?

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mel j

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ok so i went to the shop and on my way back saw my man and hes friend with him but as i turned the corner my bf was like...hey sexy was ur name n hes friend said the same ...then i turned aound and swore at them both!! my bf looked completely in shock! how the hell am i suppose to deal with this>?:( im 24 hes 23 been 2gether for 5 years :( is this ok for a guy to do then?? this means this is what he does in the street:(
he defoo wernt messing with me he thorght i was out of hes area at that time
 
for me it is not acceptable. first i would talk to him and see whats making him feel that he needs another woman. then if you see its getting nowhere, i would split... its better now than later...

good luck
 
i would ask him did u kno it was me then ask him y and then kick his ass cuz thats basically cheatin, but a least u kno he thinks yourr cute hahaha
 
well I think he probably knew it was you and was just messing around to see your reaction or what you would do. Or maybe you looked different to him today and he couldn't tell it was you.
 
Either your boyfriend is half-retarded or he was messing with you

If he really didn't know it was you, I would knock him into next week my dear.
 
wow...your guy sounds like he's a flirt. you have to ask yourself if he would go any further than that. if you can trust him to stick with just the flirting...there's not much harm in that, in fact, maybe you should try flirting a bit yourself, its good for the relationship in that it makes you feel good. but thats where it should stop.

and make sure you talk to him about how that made you feel. its all about trust hun.
 
He shouldn't be calling out to other girls on the street, and especially if he already has a girlfriend...But are you sure they weren't just playing with you? I'm going to assume you went up to him and asked him about this on the street when it happened...What was his defense? Sorry, just unbelievable to me that he wouldn't recognize you from behind after 5 years.
 
If he was not joking, then this is definitely not OK. You should have a talk with him about it. Let him know how you feel. If it bothers you, then it is not OK for him to be flirting with other women.
 
Depends on how much trust you have for him and how well you actually know him.

It's harmless for guys to flirt and chat as long as it doesn't lead to anything else. I guess you two gonna have to sit down and talk that one out.
 
obviously he thinks hes a playa. you need to set boundries and try to come up with a compromise to make the relationship work, if not then leave him, you are probably better off with out him anyways.

or ask him about it, maybe he knew it was you and decided to mess with you. guys like to play with their girls especially if they are with their friends.
 
If he looks like somebody who has been or going to be on jeremy kyle leave him
 
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