My bf doesn't like sex!?

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jenny

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Well, we had sex for the first time and I thought it was great. We were obsessed with how everyone else done it and we haven't (We're 16) so we did it and I thought it was fun and exciting. Not going to disgust anyone but all I'll say about it is that I couldn't last long and I had to tell him to stop after I orgasmed. Anyways, I enjoyed it and I wanted to do it again with him.

Well, I called him to meet me tonight and he said that he shouldn't have given up his virginity and that he loves me but not the sex. He just sounded really disappointed at himself and all I remember about what he exactly said was that it wasn't what he expected and dreamed about and the horniness got the best of him.

So he said he didn't want to do it again for now but he asked if I wanted to go to the movies instead. I was stupid cuz I kinda got frustrated so I called him gay and hung up on him, but I really love him and don't want to leave him. I still want sex so should I just have like a surgar daddy that I just use for sex. I don't know what to do?
 
Look some people aren't ready to have sex at the same time as someone else. If he isn't into it yet you have to respect that and wait. If you have a sugar daddy on the side then your on your way to being a tramp. If you love him why would you cheat? even if you like the sex you must give that up for the other person's feelings. If the sex means more to you than the relationship then your no more then a hoe. I don't think that's who you are so don't become it. And please don't make the same mistake that i made with my gf. i gave her up cause i coulnt sacrifice what i wanted 4 her and 2 months later i still hurt from the loss.
 
i understan the surgar daddy part but i wouldnt like my gf to do that to me so just ask him for an open relationship but dont cheat on him..(but i will kill 4 a girl like u lol)
 
you should have a serious talk with him and ask him what was wrong with the sex

it might have been you( no foreplay, or something he really likes)
he might have not been truly ready( thought he was but wasn't)

If you really honestly love him you should be able to wait for him until he is ready for sex. you probably can do other things just not sex like fingering, oral, dry humping. who knows
 
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