my bf ask me not to go at his lounge bar everyday,what i should do?i am a

[Musica]

bit sad about this? i like the place but he can't work when i am there and he cant be wit clients and me alone,i think he believes that i go for control him but i don't i just like the place,what i should do now?is ok for everybody to go but not me?

 

[Supertramp]

That's cool that you like where he works! I would give him his space while he's on the clock. Meet up with him after he's done working so there's no conflict.

 

[puppysyndrome]

If he worked at a petro service station, would you go and sit at the station every day? If he was an office worker, would you pull up a chair in the office and sit there while he works? If he was a delivery man, would you ride in his truck with him all the time? I think Not!

This is his workplace and he's right, it needs to be treated and respected like any other work place. I'm sure employers don't appreciate it either!

 

[stayTrue]

Everything in life has to be with control...going everyday is not! whether you like the place or not... tell him that you will go when he invites you! its better this way