I am 16 years old and my best friend is 18. Two months ago she got raped by two guys at a party. She told no one for two weeks. At the two week mark she told her younger brother who is my age and really good friends with one of the guys involved. Her brother told their parents and I do not really know what else is going on with that. A month ago she called me and told me all of this. I was very sympathetic. I did nothing wrong and I did not say anything wrong. Now she ignores all my calls, texts, emails, and only mine. What is going on? We have been really good friends for 5 years. I do not expect you to read all of this but this is the email I sent her last night:
is it just me or did i do something wrong? lauren you have always been my best friend, ever since that day we first hung out when we ditched our dick boyfriends and just messed around on the trampoline. you were the first one i could be myself around. so why wont you talk to me? where did i go wrong? why is it you that shuts me out? i sit back now with so much to say but no one to say it to. i have so much i need to talk about but the only one i can talk to about it is you. so what now? do i keep trying? do i let it go? do i let it all out in a journal? do i cry my freakin eyes out? or do i keep it in? no, i dont want to do any of that. i want to talk about it to that one person that i could go crazy with, plan out crazy "when we are older" plans with and actually know that those plans could be reality, the person that i could look at and go back to laughter instead of tears, or be completely bored with and yet still look back on that day of boredom and smile. what did i do? just tell me....
Any advice please....
i am the ONLY one she wont talk to...
We do not go to the same school and have none of the same friends. IF i did let her secret slip there is no one i could have told that knows her
is it just me or did i do something wrong? lauren you have always been my best friend, ever since that day we first hung out when we ditched our dick boyfriends and just messed around on the trampoline. you were the first one i could be myself around. so why wont you talk to me? where did i go wrong? why is it you that shuts me out? i sit back now with so much to say but no one to say it to. i have so much i need to talk about but the only one i can talk to about it is you. so what now? do i keep trying? do i let it go? do i let it all out in a journal? do i cry my freakin eyes out? or do i keep it in? no, i dont want to do any of that. i want to talk about it to that one person that i could go crazy with, plan out crazy "when we are older" plans with and actually know that those plans could be reality, the person that i could look at and go back to laughter instead of tears, or be completely bored with and yet still look back on that day of boredom and smile. what did i do? just tell me....
Any advice please....
i am the ONLY one she wont talk to...
We do not go to the same school and have none of the same friends. IF i did let her secret slip there is no one i could have told that knows her