My best friend complains that she's fat?

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My best friend is the same height as me (five feet, even) and weighs 92 pounds. I weigh 122 pounds, a solid 30 pounds more than her. She very well knows that I despise my appearance because of my weight, she knows about my anorexia and that I avoid going out in public as much as possible. One day she'll boast how she looooves being so skinny. The next she'll complain that she's fat because she can finally fit into a size one jeans, and yet again the next day she'll throw a fit how my cheer shorts are sooo huge on her, so she can't borrow them for cheer practice. Sometimes I just feel like screaming at her, but we've never fought before. What do I do?
Support her? No, she's not going through any "phase". She's trying to make me feel bad about myself. She always does but it never gets to me the way weight does.
 
Your friend is very self-concious. Tell a parent or trusted adult. if you're too worried, lose lots of weight and make her jealous. Then she won't complain at all anymore. I'm 4'10 and weigh 78 pounds, and am prety skinny. You could also plainly just confront her. Good Luck!
 
No offense but she doesn't sound like much of a friend. What do you do? Well if she doesn't realize shes making you feel bad then confront her, tell her how it makes you feel....if you think she does it knowing how it makes you feel well then, and this is just what I would do, ditch her. Anyone that makes you feel bad knowingly is no friend......Oh, by the way your not fat. I'm 5' 4" and I'm 124 pounds.
 
Tell her she is going through changes right now that we all go through. And that she needs to buy her own cheer shorts.

Tell her how you feel about her constant talk about her weight.
Maybe it's time to have your first fight. She is being very disrespectful to you and that is something you should always stand up for.

Don't let her get you down. I look better with a few extra pounds. My ideal weight makes me look too skinny and sickly. Everyone has a different shape, muscle weighs more than fat.

I would rather be fit and a couple of extra pounds than to be skinny and weak.
 
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