My "best friend" and I argue almost every time we talk?

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zombietownusa

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I recently moved but i am moving back in a year. We only talk through text and the phone occasionally and one time webcam. She always finds something to get mad over.

right now, she is mad that one of my other good friends that SHE doesnt like is coming out to stay with me for a week.

she uses her family being poor as a pity card.

WHAT IS HAPPENING TO US?
 
How long has this been happening? Just since you left, or before you even moved? If she has a problem with you hanging out with other people, then she might seem possessive. Explain to her, that she doesnt have to hang out with that person, and that you are able to hang out with other people wether she likes that person or not, she cannot dictate your friends. If she doesnt like that answer, I would assume to let her go. But be firm. Do not let her push you around, just because you have history, and it may be a comfortable place to be, its not a healthy place to be.

PS, not everybody has money either, but, learn the bus system (if its not too far) or choose to meet halfway
 
it's called being a teenager. one day, you'll move on to a new best friend. and another, and another. get used to it. it's full of drama and stupid crap. but one plus to it is that your problems will rarely last more than a week.
 
it's called being a teenager. one day, you'll move on to a new best friend. and another, and another. get used to it. it's full of drama and stupid crap. but one plus to it is that your problems will rarely last more than a week.
 
I have been through something similar.

I used to be friends with a girl who almost always ARGUED with me.

Yes, she even argued about the stupidest things. In fact, she actually backstabbed me, called me annoying, and even one of her friends told me that the girl wanted to slap me (I forgot why, though. XP).

Just ignore her for a long time. If she persists, tell her that you are really sick of her and give her all the reasons why you are. To add more detail, tell her that she made your life a living **** and you don't want to be friends with her anymore.

That was how I handled it when she got to the end of my rope.

But if your "best friend" is jealous of your good friend (the one who is staying over with you) and decides to be bull-headed, I don't think you should be friends with your so-called friend anymore, whether your parents like her or not.
 
its sounds like shes jealous of your other friend.
you should invite her over even if that means paying for it. i mean you said she was your best friend.
 
its sounds like shes jealous of your other friend.
you should invite her over even if that means paying for it. i mean you said she was your best friend.
 
its sounds like shes jealous of your other friend.
you should invite her over even if that means paying for it. i mean you said she was your best friend.
 
its sounds like shes jealous of your other friend.
you should invite her over even if that means paying for it. i mean you said she was your best friend.
 
its sounds like shes jealous of your other friend.
you should invite her over even if that means paying for it. i mean you said she was your best friend.
 
its sounds like shes jealous of your other friend.
you should invite her over even if that means paying for it. i mean you said she was your best friend.
 
its sounds like shes jealous of your other friend.
you should invite her over even if that means paying for it. i mean you said she was your best friend.
 
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