My 4 year whines so bad!!!?

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RayRay

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I have 3 children. Each child has a different father. My youngest is with my current husband. I recently left my husband (i took my children with me) and came back to Michigan where we are from. i have been separated from my husband for 3 weeks now and my youngest who is 4 years old has been whining. The whining has gotten bad and it is really hard for me to deal with. Is this a phase or did I screw up my child due to this separation? I just don't understand it. Someone please help me to understand and deal with it????
I do put my children first. How dare you say I don't. This prob. coming from someone who with kids. lol
 
It could be a phase or they may be dealing with the situation like that. Either way, you have to put your foot down and let them know that it is not ok.

Hope everything goes well.
 
usually kids at this age whine alot and want things. but u should know ur kid if its not his habit whinning and he just started it after the separation then it must be because of it. most kids dont know how to express their self so they just cry or whine when something they love is not there.
 
As I type this I have a 4 year old in the other room who is whining so badly about nothing!!! don't be too hard on yourself - it's definately normal at that age
 
The kid is going through a tough time right now. You should be more mindful of what consequences your romantic life has on your children and put them first for a while. I know it's hard to be alone especially with three kids but they need you to step up and be there for them.
 
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