My 2 yr old cries loud and manager complains?

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Hello everyone, I have a 2 year old boy and he is very smart and understanding for his age but sometimes he cries and starts screaming when he is tired or sleepy. The manager complained about 2 days ago stating that the neighbors are complaining but I know it's not true because the neighbors are very nice people and they love my baby. I think it's more her then the neighbors, sometimes when my son cries she'll come and start screaming outside the window saying that I should scare him somehow so he will stop crying tell him the police will take him away or something and I don't like what she is doing and I feel very uncomfortable. I don't want to scare my child in any way what can I do?
 
You manager is an idiot, Toddlers are going to cry and she is going to have to get over it. Next time he is crying and she starts to yell ask her does she need a time out or something. No one in the police department, social service or any other agency is going to take your 2 year old because he is crying. I would tell her to her own business. And for trying to get your toddler to stop the yelling I would try to reason with him. " I am not happy with you behavior, you show me good behavior and i will give you..." It works and two year olds understand even though they like to pretend they dont. I have a two year old and I have had to limit all his activities during the day to time out (allday! )until he understood that we dont scream, throw tantrums to get what we want and we listen to mommy when she tells us to stop. He is not scared he just knows that mommy means business. Hope this helps.
 
confront her.
tell her thats not the way you teach your children by lying to them and scaring them and that your child is 2 and every single child cries when something is wrong and she should understand.
 
First I would ignore her. If the problem persists (her yelling at you when your child is crying) then I would report her to the landlord. Children cry, it's normal. She is probably some old hag who never had children and doesn't know how to deal with them.

As for your son, unfortunately when kids throw tantrums we have to let them cry and not give in to them. But, you could try putting him on a schedule so his naps and bedtimes are consistent every day. I found this really helped with my kids. Good luck!
 
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