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The Big D
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Yesterday she told me she needed to talk to me about something and she asked me if it would okay of she and her boyfriend had sex. I honestly think I almost had heart failure when I heard those words come out of her mouth. My little angel wants to have sex? What?! We have had many talks about sex before and I strictly told her that in order to get my consent to date, she would have to promise to remain a virgin until marriage. She's aware that having sex before marriage is wrong. We are a very religious family. Her dad and I waited until marriage to have sex and it was definitely well worth the wait. I explained to her last night that even though she might feel as if this guy is the one, they are still not married, therefore it would be wrong. Well she started crying and told me she hated me and that I'm the worst mother in the world. I don't want to have to be like this, but I love my daughter too much to let anything bad happen to her. I know how teenage relationships are. If they have sex and then break up, I don't want her feeling like she was used. Then if it gets out at her school, other guys will treat her like a whore. She doesn't deseve that. What should I do?