My 13 y/o son like to argue, Talk back etc....?

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My 13 y/o son like to argue, back talk etc....he constaly being disagreeable...If I say left he says right...he is very smart, but sometimes....He is not kind...he likes robots and he figures he should have emotions like a robot....emotionless...

I take him for interviews and he just has no emtions and acts like he is Dead inside.....
I told him if he wants to be successful ...he has to be friendly and agressive....

We are at each other all the time....I'm a single Mother....but he does n ot do this to his Father........


HELP
He has a Good Father...he has a good home.....I'm very nice to him....But I do curse him out when I have reach my limit.....I did notice when we got the TV back on ...it became worse......
His father has similar personality...he is Russian....
Thanks for the Advice....I will try some of the things you guys mention....you see I really love my son...and he is doing great academically....he is 4 grades ahead....I will try to make myself better...well see how that works...

Thanks again....
 
sounds like hes bottling up his emotions- why i couldnt tell you. but at 13 kids especially boys become very disobediant and think there old enough to make there own decisions.. but i guess my suggestion would be trying to talk to him if that doesnt work. maybe make him join some clubs/sports something that will keep him active and forcing him to be around other people. (my thought is the more people hes around the more hell be forced to open up to people.) gl though :)
 
I don't know Your Son . But I thing there is A hollow Heart inside his Chest May Be because of your Bad experience .
what a Son requires is a Good Loving Father His Own Father .
which he like and Follow him as his Ideal Personallity .
No matter what you do he'll face some serious problems Accept an unknow guy as his Father . It's Normal .
Be Brave you've got to do Some Sensitive works .
 
there is nothing wrong with him...
may be you dont give him an obvious explanation for what you
say. Its not easy to say no.. kids need an explanation for why they
wrong.
 
It is all a stage in the process of his natural growth. Don't be aggressive to him. He will be all right as you expect, but he is all right to me.
 
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