Here's what you do.
1. Make a CD of songs that get you and your partner in the mood
2. Pu the Cd on repet so you don't have to stop and hit the play button
3. Turn out the lights and have some fun
And if Closer by NIN is not on that CD you didn't put the right CD on.
If Adina Howard's Freak Like Me is not on that CD you didn't put the right CD on
And you shouldn't just limit yourself to common love songs either.
Black Days by Sound Garden is on all of my CRAB. I don't know why though
And Dru Hill did make some pretty good songs meant for human relations.
Pretty Girl by Sugarcult is another good one.
Some stuff by Weezer.
One or three Incubus songs.
Some Metallica. (I prefer Unforgiven)
Deliver Me by Sara Brightman
At least 3 Red Hot Chili Peppers. Otherwise I get out of the mood really quick.
Some Rage Aginst the Machine because otherwise it's not human relations. It's the discovery channel
"The Butt Song" by Sir-Mix-A-Lot is a must. Kinda keeps you going
And there are tons of others like Chante Moore, Aaliyah, Missy Elliot, TLC, Garbage, The Pixies, Kittie, Nirvana, Ginuwine. . .
Peace out.