Mother in-law problems?

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Ashley

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To make a relatively long story short, my mother in-law and I haven't always had the best relationship. When I was pregnant with my daughter, she would call me names, threaten me, and she was even physical at one point and tried to punch me and pushed me. As I was leaving she screamed out that she didn't want to have anything to do with this child, and never wanted to see me again. She then called her daughter (my fiancees sister) and had her calling and leaving me threatening messages. The harassment from the both of them continued for quite some time. Now that we have our daughter with us, she wants to come and visit... basically forgetting all of the hurtful things that were said and done. I don't feel comfortable having her around me or our daughter, but every time I try to talk to my fiancee about it, it always ends in a fight. I've tried seeing a counselor about the issue, but she only agreed with everything I said and said horrible things about his family. I'm not sure what to do... or where we should go from here.
 
She sounds like a controlling, jealous bitch. A counselor isn't going to do anything for YOU, it's your MIL who needs counseling. Your fiancee is going to have to make a decision of what's more important to him. You and his new daughter, or his meddling mom. Is he a mama's boy? If so, I pity you sister. Make him understand what's going on; if he doesn't do anything to change it, consider leaving him and his crazy family behind. After all, if the guy that loves you and had a baby with you isn't behind you 100%, how good of a guy is he anyway?
 
if he does not want to protect you and your child, you need to think about leaving him.... obviously, he is fine with how she treats you and he is too attached to her to let her hate him. talk with him more, and if you decide you still think he is a good idea, take out a restraining order on her. you have proof she is dangerous, and it will be easy in you.
 
You got to love those mother in laws,always wanting to run the show.No wonder some marriages do not last.Never get a house with a mother in law apartment.Eventually she will move into the home and start taking over.The marriage lasted for a short while.Nothing was ever good enough for the her.She would come over and clean the house and change things around,and if you said anything,she would put on the sad puppy act and then make everyone feel bad and that she was not wanted.
 
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