Morally kicked in the Groin

JLXC's first advice was good, but I'd like to add something I don't think anyone else has really said. Uber said something about choices, and while it is true that you need to keep your options remember this first and foremost: It's your life. You have to make the most of it, and you have to be comfortable with yourself before allowing anyone else in. Get to know yourself and become comfortable with being you for you, not for who you are with some girl. You are number 1 in your life (not so that you become selfish, just so you gain some self-confidence). When girls see you are confident in yourself, and they'll see it by the way you walk and talk not by anything you say to them specifically, they'll be more interested. Then you really will have choices. Most importantly, you have time. If it doesn't work out for you right now just wait it out and continue to build your self-confidence.
 
Ok, so I hammered out the fact to her that I'm probably not going to be around if she comes back to me...and I just made sure that she was sure about remaining as friends. So, that's all fine and done, no tears(on anyone's behalf) and I'm moving on along now! Thanks for the help everyone!(specially to JXLC).

Sidenote: I've met another girl named Alexia(who's a freshy, I'm a junior) in my art class, who knows where that'll go. :confused: :redface:
 
Yeah?
What Swid says, Virginia RULES!!!
lol

Don't worry dude, I have gone through many breakups and get-to-gethers (gay ass stuff like that). As soon as you break up with a person, someone else comes along, and the cycle continues.;)
 
Good luck man, at least you're willing to take some advice when you ask for it. So many seem incapable of that. Good for you, having the balls to do what you had to, instead of riding out the shitstorm in fear. Bravo.
 
In response to Swid, I live in downtown C'ville. But yeah...I don't think things are gonna work out with Alexia, I was being optimistic since she broke up with her boyfriend but she moved to my friend Andrew. Oh well, I just met another person! YAY FOR OPTIONS!

Thanks for the compliments JX, just what I needed at the time man.
 
Holy crap.

I don't know how many times someone has wrote, "The friend zone sucks, get away from it," and been ignored. Props to the welshman for getting things done.
 
No kidding!

And Welshie... I'm sorry it didn't work out with the first chick. Or the second chick. But hey, I see a trend there. More than one woman in your life since this thread started. And that is a GOOD thing.
 
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