Mood Swings...Split Personalities...Help...Please?

[docjp]

Your friend has a very shallow level of acceptance. The intolerance voiced as "stressing" is due to a very limited ability to experience his own energy. That is, he has so much fear within his MIND realm that most of his energy is taken in repressing this, and when asked to reduce this so as to do something else... he experiences panic and intense anxiety which manifests itself as anger.

It is like an extension cord that is supplying electricity to so many things that if it isn't pulled out it will burn out. His MIND is using so much energy to repress so many fears that it cannot allow any of this energy to be used to do anything else. His desire to "please" you puts him in conflict with his own MIND, and this quickly causes his MIND to feed Delusional Thinking to the Left-Hemisphere of his brain that causes him to try and make you back off and stop threatening him.

He is of course fully unaware of what is going on within himself.

You have two options: 1. Learn to live with what is going on in hopes that some day he will seek professional help that is competent enough to be helpful. 2. Gently encourage him to leave as you seek to protect yourself and clear the field for someone with less baggage.

Peace

 

[CutiePie]

My boyfriend is 33 and is very sweet,but can sometimes be really weird,in the sense he can be very happy one day but the day after just asking him a simple question seems to stress him out so much and he'd get so mad.
For example.we had a great 4 days out of the week,this is almost every week...he'd come home from work tired, a bit moody,i can accept that...we'd sit,watch movies,talk and laugh...then the following morning i would ask him a question because i need his advice,and he'd flip saying i am stressing him out,maybe he doesn't need to be with anyone,this isn't working out,those kinda stuff and would carry it on for a while,then turn around and be all happy again.

Other weird things he does would be get so mad when we're in traffic and people don't drive the way he would like...
He doesn't like going out where a lot of people are because he is easily pissed off and would be hard to calm down if he is pissed to that point.

I don't know what to think.. i love him but he can be very happy then moody,then irritated,he's not the affectionate type,he's not into hugging and cuddling but calls me weird because i want to cuddle sometimes.

I'd appreciate respectable comments and advice..thanks...No One Is Perfect!