Chris Johnson
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...truth? What to do? Help? Okay. I'm 13. My girlfriend's 14. We had dry sex last Saturday night. Clothes on, just passionate foreplay. Today, we scheduled to meet after school at my house for some more of it. We did this via text message. She texted sure, and said she couldn't wait. She then proceeded to tell me she got wet when she saw me at school, because she was thinking about what happened. We had a little sexual flirting going on, then she proceeded to get mad all of a sudden and accuse me of liking my friend Jenn. We got it all sorted out, but she never texted back after that. During this time I was eating supper with my parents in front of the TV. After a few shows, they told me I had to go to bed, and that I should leave my phone downstairs. I pretended to, as I planned to call my girlfriend and tell her to have sweet dreams. So I was upstairs, I got ready for bed. I called. No answer. I went to sleep. I woke up at 12 AM and find my phone gone. Knowing that my mother will check on me sometimes, I realized she had taken my phone downstairs. I snuck downstairs and got my phone.
Now HERES the problem.
She probably read the texts. She probably realizes that we took place in sexual activity. She'll probably not only reprimand me for not leaving my phone downstairs, but also for being engaged in that activity at my age. Both my girlfriend and I have agreed to abstain from intercourse until 16 at least.
I called her and told her what happened. Our current plan is, if my mom did read the messages, is to avoid the topic in the morning until after school. After school, if she brings up the topic, I will tell her that at school my girlfriend had told me that her cousin had gotten her phone. I'll then tell my mom that I simply didn't want any feelings hurt when I responded, and that I didn't actually feel that way. By the way, I know I'm most likely contradicting myself here, but my mom does not know that we're planning to have dry sex on Tuesday.
Question says what I'm looking for.
Now HERES the problem.
She probably read the texts. She probably realizes that we took place in sexual activity. She'll probably not only reprimand me for not leaving my phone downstairs, but also for being engaged in that activity at my age. Both my girlfriend and I have agreed to abstain from intercourse until 16 at least.
I called her and told her what happened. Our current plan is, if my mom did read the messages, is to avoid the topic in the morning until after school. After school, if she brings up the topic, I will tell her that at school my girlfriend had told me that her cousin had gotten her phone. I'll then tell my mom that I simply didn't want any feelings hurt when I responded, and that I didn't actually feel that way. By the way, I know I'm most likely contradicting myself here, but my mom does not know that we're planning to have dry sex on Tuesday.
Question says what I'm looking for.