mind disturbances

hi!...on april 7th 2009 ,i had been to one of my friends funeral and which is said to be my 1st time seeing it,-
My question is, y am i not able to forget it till now, that too even after a year had passed?? the same incident is running all over my brain everyday...
though i had taken few homeopathy medicines i am not able to overcome it? why?
please help me on this!!!!
 
Hi, I am sorry to hear you are having a hard time with this. A friends death can be pretty hard to get through, especially going to the funeral and harder if there was a viewing. I was told when my mother died that it would eventually get better and I would forget, I went through a terrible time for 4 years wondering why it wouldn't go away, and mad that I was told it would get better, because all I did was remember seeing her. Once i started getting out of the house with friends, or even by myself and having a life outside my apartment, it actually did get better and start fading away because I wasn't dwelling on it then because my mind was busy. It took long for me because I cannot work so I was by myself alot and not going anywhere so I had alot of time to just think and dwell. Also, if I drank at first, that made it worse. Do what you can to be around friends and family, and spend time with them and go places and keep yourself busy with your own life and goals you have and things you want to do, and it really does start going away and getting better every single day. I hope this helped just a little.
 
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