yes, i would care. not only would it be nice if she appreciated what you do, but gave you some credit for it. but who knows mabey she just feels less important to you. yeah it crazy but us girls feel things that dont make any sense sometimes. or if your gone she may just feel lonley. if everything else is good and your for the most part happy than, give her a break and try not to discuss it to much. BUT, if theres more to be unhappy about than, you could find someone else. nomatter what she thinks, you should be appreciated, AND FEEL PROUD! I KNOW YOU SAID MEN BUT IVE BEEN WITH A MILITARY MAN AND CAN RELATE........