Jill Pawze
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I've been with my boyfriend for 8 almost 9 months. I know his personality. He's told me he loves me, but for him when we're together he usually says it once a day, or may go a couple days in between before saying it.
He recently went away for a work conference. On the last day we were talking and he told me he loved me FOUR times within a few hour period.
This alone wasn't enough to send up red flags for me, until it was coupled with a few other things (nothing major-- for example, him being really quiet when I picked him up at the airport), and now I feel like he is hiding something, that SOMETHING went on while he was away. Exactly WHAT, I can't say, but I need to know if I'm making mountains out of mole hills...
MEN--- if you're usually a certain way and all of a sudden you get more drastic... are you feeling guilty about something? OR could it have been that he missed me?
He met up with a friend (who is female) who happened to be there at the same time as him. I know for a fact he doesn't see her as anything other than a friend and for safety I just stalked her fb pictures and saw my bf in one, just a friendly pic together, and I hadn't asked what he did with her, so I just texted him and asked what went on, and he told me everything and said he only got to see her for a little while... which looks legit b/c of all her pictures, he's only in one.
He recently went away for a work conference. On the last day we were talking and he told me he loved me FOUR times within a few hour period.
This alone wasn't enough to send up red flags for me, until it was coupled with a few other things (nothing major-- for example, him being really quiet when I picked him up at the airport), and now I feel like he is hiding something, that SOMETHING went on while he was away. Exactly WHAT, I can't say, but I need to know if I'm making mountains out of mole hills...
MEN--- if you're usually a certain way and all of a sudden you get more drastic... are you feeling guilty about something? OR could it have been that he missed me?
He met up with a friend (who is female) who happened to be there at the same time as him. I know for a fact he doesn't see her as anything other than a friend and for safety I just stalked her fb pictures and saw my bf in one, just a friendly pic together, and I hadn't asked what he did with her, so I just texted him and asked what went on, and he told me everything and said he only got to see her for a little while... which looks legit b/c of all her pictures, he's only in one.